Published: Fusion (June 7, 2016) As someone with autism, I’ve often wondered if there’s anything I can do to make neurotypicals, the name for you folks in the non-autistic community, less unpredictable to myself. I pose this question not as an attack or criticism....
Satire: Some Quips on Unsolicited Dick Pics
Apr 5, 2016 | Love and Dating
Published: The Good Men Project (April 5, 2016) Every so often a deadline looms and I need a good peg for a story. Since I'm pretty spent with droning endlessly on about super-serious subjects, I figured I should address a somewhat more frivolous - albeit still...
Thanks for the Automated Valentine!
Feb 14, 2016 | Internet Culture, Love and Dating, Science and Technology
Published: The Good Men Project (February 13, 2016) First, I just want to add that I'm a big fan of Film Brain, the British movie critic whose web series "Bad Movie Beatdown" manages to intelligently deconstruct some of the worst motion pictures ever made. Since our...
3 Quick Tips for Awkward, Lonely Nerds
Sep 15, 2015 | Gender and Sexism, Love and Dating, Salon.com
Published: The Good Men Project (September 15, 2015) Back in January, Salon ran an editorial by famous writer and game show winner Arthur Chu called "The plight of the bitter nerd." Apparently this piece proved quite popular, since it has recently reemerged as one of...
Why We Need To Bring Back Crushes
Aug 20, 2015 | General Advice, Love and Dating, Satirical Essays
Published: The Good Men Project (August 20, 2015) Let’s talk about crushes. I recently noticed that when adults discuss their romantic feelings, the term “crush” is almost never used. When it does appear, there is almost always an apologetic undertone to it – people...
You Don’t Have To Like #MarriageEquality to See That It’s Right
Jun 27, 2015 | Gay Rights and Other LGBTQIA Issues, Love and Dating, Supreme Court and Other Judicial Issues
Published: Good Men Project (June 27, 2015) Matt Rozsa dismisses the top three arguments against #MarriageEquality so everyone can embrace the change. ___ Now that the Supreme Court has ruled that same-sex couples throughout America have the right to get married, it’s...
Love Online, Love at First Sight, and Other Romances We Don’t Trust: An Interview with Dating Consultant Laura Gub
Jun 16, 2015 | Internet Culture, Love and Dating
Published: Good Men Project (June 16, 2015) An interview with dating consultant Laura Gub on the kinds of love we’re least likely to trust. —- Last week the Internet was sent into a tizzy over news that actress Lark Voorhies, best known for her starring role in the...
3 Correctable Behaviors That Destroy Relationships
May 30, 2015 | Autobiographical, General Advice, Love and Dating
Published: Good Men Project (May 30, 2015) Matthew Rozsa identifies 3 things to stop doing if you want to give your relationship—romantic, platonic, familiar, et cetera—a chance. ___ Roughly four weeks ago, an ex-girlfriend of mine (with whom I had maintained a close...
Why We Should Stop Saying ‘Friend Zone’
May 28, 2015 | Autobiographical, Gender and Sexism, General Advice, Love and Dating
Published: Good Men Project (May 28, 2015) Matthew Rozsa discusses the term “friend zone” – and why we should get rid of it. Since this article was inspired by a personal experience, it seems only fair that I open it with a confession: I have complained about being...
The Relationship Lesson We Can All Learn From People Who Have Asperger’s
May 4, 2015 | Asperger's Syndrome, Autobiographical, General Advice, Love and Dating
Published: Mic (May 4, 2015) "Love is the only game that is not called on account of darkness." This quote, a favorite on the Internet, may be referring to the dating habits of the general population. But as someone who's grown up with Asperger's Syndrome, I find the...